I think encouraging your wife about this is manipulative. This is a turn-on for us both, and our sex life has benefited enormously from the habit. If she doesn't seem game and isn't running with the idea, you seriously need to back off. It was a non issue between hubby and I, as we were both aware the exchanges were to plan for the following weekend. But IRL encounters expose her and you to risk of disease, risk of violence, possible risk of pregnancy, possible blackmail, etc. But you do need to be super careful about how you do this.
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They have even been known to pop to the pub and leave me at home. My husband was devastated, and I was devastated I had hurt my gorgeous caring man so much. I know I have intentionally used "bad boy" types to help me push back against such pressures. Sam and I continued to text, and there was a lot of flirting. I think you don't encourage her anymore. Do Not Pressure Her--but it's difficult to jump into this kind of thing, and she might not feel like she can do it without your help.